magine a place where quiet, introverted people who do not seek happiness directly are actually the happiest people on earth. This is Finland, where happiness whispers.
Finnish wisdom's modesty and resilience mirror the path of the spiritual warrior. There, happiness is not envied but embodied.
Caught in comparison and expectation, we often miss the essence of true joy. Finland's cultural mantras teach us the art of contentment and the strength of serenity.
To walk the sea of life gracefully, we must embrace the storms as we do the calm.
Here is what we'll learn from the #1 happiest country in the world:
In Finland, happiness is a quiet companion, reflected in the saying, "Who has happiness should hide it."
Alan Watts once said, "The meaning of life is just to be alive. It is so plain and so obvious and so simple." And yet, everybody rushes around in a great panic as if it were necessary to achieve something beyond themselves. And this achievement would mean something meaningful for ourselves. And then we could relax and be happy.
We compare ourselves to others to feel reassured that we are doing well. However, this often has a negative effect on our happiness.
In Finland, people tend to be more oblivious to those comparisons — and, consequently, more content. The Finnish tend to shun overt displays of success, which makes less comparisons possible.
This mantra invites us to find fulfillment in simplicity. It reminds us that true happiness doesn't need to be broadcast - it can - but rather deeply felt.
Actionable Insight:
At first sight, the Finnish saying "The pessimist will never be disappointed" carries a strange message. I am more familiar with the shared belief that to be happy we should be optimistic and positive.
With a deeper understanding, this mantra contains a nuanced message of resilience. It means that setbacks are a fact of life. Optimism gives you hope, while pessimism prepares you for setbacks. We all experience pain, disappointment, and even tragedy. Once you embody this philosophy, there's nothing to be frightened of. Tools exist to regulate these challenges emotionally.
This saying embodies the spiritual warrior's balance between realism and optimism. Maintaining hope when facing inevitable challenges helps us strive for improvement.
Actionable Insight:
"Everyone is the blacksmith of their happiness." This Finnish saying beautifully captures the essence of the spiritual warrior's path. It reminds us that we are the creators of our happiness. If luck plays a role in our lives, it's one that we invite through our actions and openness of heart. True joy comes from the dual process of shaping our lives while nurturing the bonds that support us.
Research shows who we are, what we can achieve, and our happiness is often the sum of the people around us.
The quality of the support you get often determines where you'll end up in life.
All high-performing teams know that. We, too, must put in the effort to forge our happiness, including requesting support from those around us.
Actionable Insight:
"Some have happiness; everyone has summer" speaks to the impermanence of life's seasons.
While there are aspects of our lives we can influence or change, there are many things we can't control.
The Buddha's teachings about impermanence offer a profound insight into the Finnish acceptance of life's cyclical nature.
"Just as a solid rock is not shaken by the storm, even so, the wise are not affected by praise or blame."
Happiness and sorrow are part of the same cycle. Over the past months, I realized that quiet happiness was with me daily. Bad moods still occupy the sky, but my mind is like the blue sky behind the clouds. I know they are passing. This clarity helps me embrace life's ups and downs with equanimity and hope.
All experiences, whether good or bad, offer opportunities for growth and renewal.
Actionable Insight:
The serene Finnish landscapes balance summer's warmth and winter's chill. Our lives, too, have highs and lows. The skills of happiness are resilience, modesty, self-determination, and acceptance of life's cycles. Develop these skills every day.
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