hy are we struggling?
As partner? Entrepreneur? Creator? Father or mother?
"Know Thyself", answer all philosophies and traditions.
Deep down, what are we seeking? Is it the pursuit of happiness, the quest for knowledge, or something more profound?
'Know thyself' is the whispered secret to unlocking the deepest recesses of the human soul.
It has guided philosophers and truth seekers for centuries.
Why not you?
Knowing oneself is required to live a fulfilled life. For some, it is the ultimate quest.
There are more pragmatic gains:
Many people struggle to know themselves. They are stuck in their own biases, emotions, and experiences. They believe a personality test will unravel the truth. Or they are afraid of what they might discover about themselves.
The only way to truly know oneself is through experience.
Insights in this issue include:
I still remember the day I realized I had been living someone else's dream, not mine. It was a wake-up call that changed the course of my life forever.
That was in 2016. I was managing the family business, a state-of-the-art high-tech company serving the wealthiest industries on the planet: oil and Gas. I was suffering, conforming, and trying to sustain my father's legacy.
How could I know it was not my path?
I began to realize that true fulfillment comes from living a life that aligns with our values and passions. How could I know my values and passion beforehand?
I couldn't. Only experience can teach you.
At a deeper level, direct experience helps us realize who we truly are. It allows us to bypass the mental constructs and external influences that cloud our perception of self.
Through direct, lived experience, we uncover profound truths about who we are.
When you have a direct experience, your values and passions emerge naturally.
Book a session if you want to enjoy a direct experience of yourself.
Think about your image in the mirror.
You are both the seeker and the sought, the knower and the known, the one seeking and the object of your search.
The knower is inherently limited by its own biases, emotions, and experiences.
How could you then know who you are if you - the knower knowing.- are limited?
It is as if a clearing would like to know itself.
Looking around, only trees.
This paradox creates a barrier to understanding the self through conventional means.
You cannot truly know yourself through the process of knowing.
Because this means you are trying to grasp your essence with the same mechanisms that obscure it (knowing).
Read that again.
Our biases, identities, and mental constructs obscure the essence of our true nature.
To understand our desires and purpose, we must see that our conditioning clouds our understanding.
We can only transcend these limits by questioning our assumptions. We must delve beyond standard frameworks to reach our true selves.
You may think you know what you want, but your biases and emotions may cloud your judgment.
This is where experience comes in.
Your experience is enriched by awareness.
Awareness is enhanced by meditation and guidance.
Take time to observe your thoughts and emotions.
Book a discovery call with me for guidance.
You can gain years of self-awareness with a couple of sessions.
This, in turn, can help you better understand yourself and your motivations.
Self-awareness forms the foundation for personal growth.
Igor Kufayev teaches that by dismantling our mental constructs, we can glimpse a purer form of awareness.
One that is free from the distractions of past and future concerns.
Without self-awareness, we may become stuck in behavior patterns that hold us back from achieving our goals.
We must free ourselves from our self-imposed limits.
This means taking apart the mental constructs that define them.
For instance, let's consider a scenario where you're struggling to make progress on a project at work. You may feel frustrated and stuck. Blame the external environment, your boss, your client...
You need to realize you're holding yourself back.
This is done through experience and awareness.
This is why guidance is so powerful:
It is a cycle of growth.
I can help you slow down and explore your inner world.
You don't even need to reprogram anything.
The single experience of shedding light on your thought construct has the power to deconstruct it.
By dismantling your fears, you can find new clarity to propel you forward.
As Pema Chödrön would say, we should "work with difficulties."
"The wound is where the light enters you."" - Rumi.
Book a session with me to dismantle your biggest fears.
Experience is crucial in self-discovery, allowing us to know our strengths, weaknesses, and desires.
Experience is not what happens to us but how we respond to it.
If you continue behaving the same way you have ever done, you won't get different results. As long as you think and imagine without being in the action, you don't experience.
If you don't experience, you don't develop a better understanding of who you are.
If you don't develop a better understanding of who you are, you don't grow.
Imagine you're passionate about photography but have never pursued it.
Taking a course and practicing it can help you engage directly with your passion.
It will help you grow a broader creative flow and love for nature you did not know you had prior to experience.
This experience breaks preconceived notions. It lets you understand who you are.
Embracing all our experiences, good and bad, is fundamental for personal growth.
True freedom lies in fully experiencing life.
The joy and peace that arise from this are causeless and always present.
For example, let's say you've experienced a setback in your career.
Instead of dwelling on the negative or escaping and running, embrace the experience. Embrace the lessons, moving forward with renewed clarity and purpose.
"What you resist, persists." - Eckart Tolle.
What you accept, transforms you.
Embracing our experiences without resistance, we can uncover an inner peace that's always been there.
You'll only know after making the decision.
Only through experience will you have feedback.
Only then can you let go of your fears, anxieties, and doubts.
Only then can you cultivate inner peace and fulfillment.
The joy and peace at our core have no cause.
This state of bliss is not something we achieve but something that has always been present.
You can choose to learn from the experience and move forward.
It will help you understand yourself and the world better.
"The only way to get rid of suffering is to face it directly." - Pema Chödrön.
Book a session with me to transition from a career or life setback.
Self-discovery takes courage, self-awareness, and a willingness to learn from experience.
Kufayev's teachings remind us that our joy comes from within. It arises when we dismantle mental constructs and fully embrace life.
Reflect on your past experiences with new awareness and openness, and you'll see how they've shaped you into who you are today.
Embrace your journey with courage.
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