ave you ever wondered why some days feel like a cascade of successes? Others feel like you're stomping through the mud. What if the key to flipping the script on those tough days depends only on your perception?
Our lives are not shaped by the events that occur but by how we perceive and react to these events.
Understanding how to change our perception of events can transform our daily experience. It radically transforms us from passive receivers to active creators of our destiny.
It's easier to blame circumstances or fate than to accept that we might be the architects of our misfortune.
This belief in external causes is a major roadblock to personal transformation.
This morning, I entered a bakery to buy two baguettes for 3 euros. As I pulled out my debit card, I remarked to the cashier:
-I don’t have cash... Aren’t you going to say anything?
- Why should I?
- Because there's a fee to use a card.
- Yes, there's a fee.
- Other shops often complain about it.
- Complaining changes nothing.
I like this mindset. But science shows she's wrong. I'll explain why.
You are the sculptor of your reality; every thought and feeling is a stroke of your chisel.
What we'll explore in this letter:
Quantum physics reveals that we can't just watch something without affecting it.
Hard to believe. Watch a mountain. It remains a moutain. Yet, for a closer look at this concept, consider the double-slit experiment, which shows how observation influences quantum particules in unexpected ways.
According to expert Fritjof Capra, instead of being isolated little dots, particles are like active patterns.
This idea is similar to how we think about our own lives: the way we look at and think about things can actually change them.
In other words, where we put our focus can really shape our outcomes.
A person observing the particles that makeup atoms affects the behavior of energy and matter.
This means we influence the outcome by observing or focusing on a particular aspect of our lives.
Nothing exists outside of our consciousness. Our thoughts and intentions set the foundation of our experiences.
Complaining changes the outcome.
Decide to focus on abundance rather than lack.
Your world will begin to shift.
A client who prefers to stay anonymous was stuck in a partnership with his brother. When he separated from the partnership, he could not believe everything would be okay for his brother. Guilt ate him from inside. He worked on his perception and managed to see his brother's capabilities differently.
Guilt vanished.
He could devote himself with renewed energy to his new business.
He brainstormed 20 new business ideas. As I write, he is assessing them based on his values and their positive impact on the world and his family.
This man feels free to create.
"The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek." - Joseph Campbell.
Taking full responsibility for one's life is challenging.
Many fall into the victim mentality trap, blaming external circumstances for their dissatisfaction.
This mindset is starkly opposed to the teachings of Adlerian psychology. It's not the events but our interpretations of them that shape our lives.
Reading this now will make sense for most of us.
But think twice: what do you think when someone hits your buttons?
As Alfred Adler put it, "It is not events that disturb people; it is their judgments concerning them."
We must actively choose our responses to overcome these pitfalls.
Focus on empowerment, not blame.
Many philosophical traditions focus on the interplay between consciousness and reality.
In the Tao Te Ching, Lao Tzu writes, "When you realize there is nothing lacking, the whole world belongs to you."
A shift in perception can change our experience of the world. It's about recognizing abundance and completeness within.
Quantum theory teaches about the potentiality of every situation. All potential outcomes exist until someone observes and realizes one.
Our focus and beliefs shape our reality.
Connecting timeless teachings with modern thought enriches our understanding.
It helps us apply them to creating our reality.
Acknowledge your perceptions shape your world. Choose what to observe to influence how things unfold.
This is the path to freedom and fulfillment.
Now, we need to ensure that the shift in perception is not just a fleeting insight.
How can it be a lasting transformation?
Here is where memorization and repetition are empowering concepts.
Tibetan Buddhism teaches the power of meditation in transforming the mind.
"By transforming your mind, everything external will be transformed." - Thubten Yeshe.
Have a vision.
Redirect all your energy and focus on that vision using :
These practices will help solidify new perceptions into habitual responses. Being consistent will align your thoughts and emotions. It will align them with the realities you want to create.
Embrace the wisdom that "you create your reality."
In doing so, you step into a world where possibilities are as limitless as your willingness to see them.
Remember, the journey inward is the most rewarding adventure you can embark on.
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